Lots going on…

I’ve been MIA for about a week — sorry about that, friends! I was out of town Friday through LATE Monday, and then Tuesday was a totally lost day trying to catch up at work. Yesterday was better… Till I had a huge new project thrown at me. It’s just been a crazy few days, even for checking e-mail and stuff.

So let’s see… Over the weekend my boyfriend and I went to Canton, Ohio, for the NFL Hall of Fame inductions and expo game. We’re Titans fans, so it was a great game for us! We were there with one of his college friends, who’s a Bills fan — it was a little less fun for him. :) But truly, it was a great time getting to meet some of his friends, hang out, and watch some football! (I think I’m an overall happier person during football season!)

We left to head home on Monday, and stopped in Cincinnati at King’s Island to ride roller coasters on the way home! It was wonderful! We had such a good time. We both love stuff like that — it was a really great way to spend an afternoon. Of course, it meant getting home super-late…

And, when we got home, it was to my boyfriend’s smoke detectors going off. They’re all hard-wired together through his alarm system, so if one goes, they all go… There was no fire, thank goodness, but his alarm system is ALL jacked up. We were up till the wee hours of the morning trying to get the alarms to shut up, figure out the issue, call repair people… Boo.

Poor boyfriend… He’s having a really hard time lately. He has gained some weight — not a ton, but some — and he’s feeling really bad about it. He knows I find him attractive, but he’s worried about his health (his dad is significantly overweight, and he doesn’t want to start down that path). He’s pondering doing Weight Watchers. I’ve never tried it, but it doesn’t seem like my kind of plan… However, as boyfriend acknowledged, he does a lot better when there’s a “system” to anything he’s attempting, so it may be great for him. We talked about it a lot yesterday and I’ve told him I’m 100% behind whatever he wants to do, and I’ll cook whatever we need to, help him keep track of points (or however it works — I’m clueless!), continue to be the gym motivator (even more so)…

I just don’t want him to feel bad about himself. He’s too wonderful for an extra 20-25 pounds to make him this upset.

I think the next couple of weeks will be interesting as we figure out what plan will work best for him and really (re)commit to our health.

3 Comments so far

  1. astrongnewme @ August 13th, 2009

    I’m like your boyfriend, a system makes me stick to it better for some reason. I did WW for a while and the points can be tedious at first, but after a while he should get a feel for what has how many points, and it won’t take as long to figure points each day. Plus it helps get a feel for portion sizes, calories, etc. without walking around with a calculator all day long!

  2. khmerbeauty @ August 13th, 2009

    We missed you hon! WOW I am loving the life I see you lead. :) Well, 20 to 25 extra lbs of love is a good thing. ;)

  3. jerseymom @ August 17th, 2009

    Wow! I’m exhausted just reading that. Hopefully thhings have calmed down for you by now. The foot ball game sounds great!
    I do ww myself and think it’s great. It def. works (if you do it). I’m not a fan of ‘diets’ but they let you eat anything, even restaurants and after a week or two it becomes pretty simple to track those points. You’re a great friend and girfriend for being so supportive!!

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